Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Beginnings

Gracie has been a part of our family for almost a whole month now, and it is so hard for me to imagine life without her! Two of our favorite times of day are the bedtime process of tucking her in and when she first wakes up. I love being able to sing her to sleep and place her safely into her crib. I can't imagine her thought processes coming from a room of 20 babies, to a crib of her own in a quiet room with someone to rock her to sleep every night. When she wakes up first thing in the morning Brian and I are greeted with a little hand waving to us from across the room - Blessed beyond words!

We were not able to visit Gracie's home city or orphanage while we were in China. Perhaps one day we will make that journey with her when she is older. I am a part of an online group of families who have adopted from Gracie's particular orphanage. It was at this site that I was able to find these priceless pictures of the building and city where she spent the first 16 months of her life.

I want to honor Gracie's beginnings and handle the story of her early life with love and respect. So many of you have asked about her "story" and I feel these are the things we can share. We were told that she was abandoned at the gate of the Lianjiang Social Welfare Institution when she was estimated to be one day old in February of 2008. We were told that the majority of the children there are discovered in the same particular place by the front gate. The workers are not allowed to pick up the infants, but are to report the discovery to the local police. The police can then take the children to the orphanage to be cared for.

Gracie's "finding ad" was placed in the Yancheng Evening News in June of 2008. Gracie's picture, along with 31 other children's pictures, was placed in this newspaper to give any family member 60 days to come forward to claim their children. If no one comes forward during this time, the children are officially considered abandoned and will be cared for by their prospective orphanages.

Gracie was also named by her orphanage workers. The name "Jia" means home, or family. The name "Shu" means book or letter. The office workers who accompanied Gracie on the day we met her told us she was given these names in hopes that she would one day have a family who loved her and that she would also receive a good education. We will forever be grateful to the women who cared for our daughter in the first year of her life. What a priceless role they play in the lives of these little ones in the small coastal city of Gracie's birth. It is our prayer that every boy and girl within those walls will one day be placed with a loving family who will honor their beginnings as well. I'd take our little treasure over a winning lottery ticket or mansion any day!




The gate of the LianJiang SWI



The side of the gate where we're told most of the children are discovered.


Lianjiang SWI



The baby building




Liangjiang City

1 comment:

  1. What a sweet post! It's hard to imagine all the fears and uncertainties that crossed your mind while waiting, isn't it?! Gracie is definitely YOUR girl...chosen by her Creator to bless your family beyond measure. It is simply, unspeakable joy.

    Love the new blog look!

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